PREDICTION: a statement about what will happen or might happen in the future
I first met my children in the basement of my childhood home. Or, at least, the concept of my children. Becky held the pen and was about to determine the trajectory of my life on a sheet of scrap paper. Because, you know, back then LIFE was easily boiled down to five essential components: type of dwelling; job; type of car; name of partner; and number of children. With earnestness only seen just before jury verdicts in TV dramas, Becky geared up for the big reveal.
Would I live with my current crush in a mansion with two adorable children and a Lamborghini or was I doomed to a life of disappointment in a shack with Mr. Plan C and oodles of children? Even then, I knew that two children seemed about right and that oodles of children was not for me. Oodles in this case meant four because you had to list four numbers to play MASH and it was the 80s in the suburbs – shunning reproduction altogether by suggesting zero as a number simply wasn’t an option.
I knew just enough about cars to list the same four every time. I imagine modern day girls list minivan as their uncool but palatable option. They probably also use an app instead of lined paper with the spiral fringe attached. I listed station wagon. The wood paneling was implied. I lacked the foresight and humility to list “Honda Accord with paint highlights on the bumper from fixed objects in parking garages.”
We didn’t think to question that we would have absolute authority to name the creatures we grew in our uteruses. [Note to Reader: Proper term is the result of hindsight and personal growth. Babies still grew in tummies back then.] We selected names for our future children with no consideration of what our future spouse’s preferences would be. Plus, Jake (please let it be Jake) seemed like the kind of guy who would be proud to father a child named after one of the New Kids on the Block or a character on Saved By The Bell.
Those who have knowledge don’t predict.
Those who predict don’t have knowledge.